Do we know what our comfort zone is or do we just assume? Sure, it's comfortable to go to a job day to day that you know how to do with your eyes closed. It becomes familiar and routine and for the most part we crave routine. However, when that routine starts to become less than ideal it's time to start making some changes. I have always believed that you have to LOVE (did you hear me scream that?) what you do to do it every day. So, do YOU love what you do? I can honestly say that today in the here and now I am in love with my job. My husband joked last night that he is so in love "with the maid" and those of you who know Dan know it was a joke and I did laugh! I have never felt more complete stepping out of my former comfort zone.
I knew what time the kids had to be to school and daycare and what time meetings were and that dinner needed to get ready and that we would all be home and eating together at dinner. I knew the extra events that we had. Today though, I know when we have school and I know the few hours of daycare and the time that I have for me but other than that it's a crap shoot as a SAHM. It's all up in the air based on how the kids slept or mommy for that matter. What is the weather like? How are we all feeling? What's going on in town today? Is Daddy traveling? More importantly, is Grandma around to help? We have no particular schedule other than to spend time with one another, do some 'school work' and projects and just be. So, yep that's out of my comfort zone but brings pure happiness.
Setting up my own business was also something different and for me the greatest decision. I enjoy helping others find their footing with their events and meetings. Being able to be a sound board to flesh out ideas is fun and always different. And now I have my adornable.u. Being a Founding Leader and part of a start up is exciting. Yes, there are challenges and kinks along the way, but we work through them. All of these steps outside of what I'm used to have helped me to take a deep breath, relax, have more fun and go with the flow.
The poll I asked at the launch of my business was what step are you taking. From those who responded three were popular but one of which was ME time. It's not always easy to find that time. For me with the support of my family I have found that with an amazing boot camp that I joined called Worlds Best Boot Camp Fairfax County. Yep, making a plug alright!!! I had no strength or desire and let's be honest those who know me know I'd rather not exercise (unless I can dance). I have seen such tremendous growth in my spirit and change to my body that taking this HUGE step outside of what was comfortable has been a motivator. I see the physical and mental transformation and in just 6 weeks. I dedicated 6 weeks to a better me and I can't wait to continue.
So, I challenge you to take a look and ask yourself are you stepping outside of your comfort zone? If so, I want to hear about it! If not tell me what one small thing can you do today to start to make a change in something that matters to you.
Until next time.
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